This post is taken from my friend’s blog. Visit it at http://akidos.blogspot.com . I’ve reformatted the post for easier reading.
Prologue
i know what i am writing here is very personal and might hurt some people directly or indirectly. Since i am an ass hole, (my hidden talent) i am going to precede with my ‘Kepochi’ writings. By the way everything that i wrote here is true and i am doing this not to humiliate anyone….
Let me give u a brief introduction on Dan. I met this guy on the first day of SPB Camp and my first impression towards him was, he is an asshole! But then, he didn’t do anything to me so i careless about him. Dan who claimed he is rich (parents just working as a lecturers in UM- estimated salary around rm8k with incentive) often brag about his car. He also claimed that he could finish the entire ACCA program in a year which of course impossible for an ordinary human : ) , unless the person already have a degree in accountings. His physical characteristic – ugly, not pleasant looking at all, his legs are weird (looks like an elephants leg), short, smelly and the only word that I can find to describe him is Dan. Oh yeah lately I been using ‘Dan’ to insult people too … usually it goes like ‘oi stop being like a Dan ‘. This guy started to irritate everyone around him! He created so much trouble…oh yeah , he thinks he is hot , sexy and can get any girl he wants !!!
First event – first semester
At some random naan restaurant, where Ana (active spb member) jokingly took his car key and went to his car – DANs reaction was too much then because, he went out from the restaurant shouting like he is in hysteria and everyone in the shop was looking at us! It was very embarrassing ….
2nd event – first semester
if not mistaken this event happened after emina screening .. He offered to fetch miss cheng lin hui back to her apartment. On his way back, he stopped by at spb work room to ask us, whether we would like join him for dinner. (His real intension was to ask her out for dinner, but he knew that she will refuse to go with him alone so he asked us along too – his confession !!!) . Danny my current housemate together with other spbians planned a simple prank on Dan. What they did was to move his car a little bit further then he first parked. Distance moved was less then a meter. DANs reaction – he took his wooden katana and went on berserk . He started yelling asking for the culprit who moved his car. At the meantime he yelled and scolded miss cheng lin hui and gave a very unreasonable explanation for him to get very mad towards her. He hit Putra ( another spb member ) till I came to the rescue … ( HEHE )
3rd event – second semester
This event took place at Sampan a fancy restaurant by the seaside during his birthday. I am not sure what happened but that day,he went too much asking others too pay for his bills! Argument took place and he acted disrespectful towards Carl SPB publisher … The situation was very bad then and he almost get his faced punched by people! – ( he is just a dog that don’t know how to appreciate)
- those events that I mentioned was part of the things that he did … there are many things that he did that I haven’t mention.
Dan’s Love Life
This guy been going after a girl – Sally (not real name) for 6 months and he was rejected multiple times by the same girl. She refuses to go out with him most of the time because he is an ass. Furthermore this dog don’t have and sense of humor! He always go around telling people that he loves her and the same time he will curse her (Fuck, why this bitch don’t like me? – exact same sentence). He also thinks that he went after her long enough and he is very miserable now!!!
When we first joined spb, he claimed that he had a gf and always refer her as his ex. He not even once mentioned her name too us . My opinion on his ex was she is not real. She is just an imaginary girl that he invented, probably to look cool in front of his friends!
I came to hear that, he went out for a movie (death note 2) with a girl named Jessica (not real name). I predicted that he will go after her and I talk to the girl about this. Jessica felt it would be very disgusting and embarrassing if he goes after her and unfortunately her nightmare came true !!! –(the list of msges below are written by DAN AND IT IS THE ORIGINAL TRUE COPY )
Message #1
here's the thing...i'll just skip all the stories la...she's been goingout with a guy lately...though she doesnt say yes or no when i asked, ican just feel it ( he thinks he is psychic now )...n i've never really been wrong before...the thingis...i dont really wanna go through depression again ( he goes thru premenstrual syndrome every month , I am sure u all sure know : ) ), all that pain nstuffs...there's a part of me that is willing to just wait, no matter howlong it takes, or how much pain i'd have to go through...n yet...honestly,i kinda like u ( hehe he is confessing )...i dunno, somehow, beofre i met u, i dont really feelanything towards other girls at all (cibai liar , he got lots of feelings to lots of girls ! )...but lately, for some reason i thinkur attractive ( ATRACTIVE !!! )...im really confused...i dont know what im feeling anymorehonestly...i love her, but it hurts so much to just watch by...n on theother hand,somehow i felt something towards u, the same thing that i feltfor jas when i first met her...the feeling that somehow i just want to bewith this person, n not hurt her...now, im not confessing to u ( he just said I like you and it’s the same as Sally ), neither ami trying to ask u out on a date or something....i need ur help as afriend( lame excuse )...seriously tell me what to do...should i just tahan all the pain nhope that someday we might end up together or should i just forget abouther n find someone else...i do know one thing though...i love her ( love her and have feelings towards other girls too ..? ), but ithurts so much, n somehow i feel something for u but i dunno what it is ( at this point what I think is he is trying to tell her that he likes her (Jessica) and all the reasons and excuses he gave was to cover up his previous crush. He don’t want Jessica to think that he is able to switch target in an instant )
Message #2
see...u havent heard all of the story yet...sure, she's been using me alot ( him getting her stuff its not her fault and this is not called as misusing him !!! , cibai selfish dog it is normal for ppl to request help and if you are not sincere then don’t do it ) ...but i bring her a lot of problems too...after the night that we madeout ( still curious about this part since he claimed that he made out with Sally , because if he really made out with her the girl just went lower then a cheap whore ) i was so fucked up the other day, when we went out that night, inearly raped her ( conflict begins ... he admitted !)...well, i tried to kiss her again that night, n shepushed me away n we kinda got into a bad fight...n honestly, after thanight i thought i'd never see her again...n there r things that i've doneto her that if any other guy did to her, she'd just stop being friendswith him instantly...but after all those craps, she's still there. sheeven once said that she have no idea y is she still friendswithme...there's lots of times where she wanted to just run away from me,but she didnt, n she doesnt even know y
Message #3
what do i want...?i dont know anymore...seriously i dont...if i do, theni wouldnt be asking u...u see, all these while, im certain that i love hern i'd just wait...but now, i felt something towards u, n maybe i can feelsomething towards other girls again, n just the thought of her out withanother guy kills me...a part of me is tired of all this n the pain is toomuch, n yet another part of me loves her a lot that all the pain is worthit...
One or two weeks later rumors spread around that DAN is going after another girl. The girl was another SPB member Emily (not real name ) . She is also Jessica’s housemate ! I somehow manage to get information from few trusted sources that he gave her rosses during valentines day not as a friend ! He was hoping for more then and this girl was troubled the whole day. She felt disgusted too I guess …: )
Ok come back to the main topic now .. DAN ATTEMPTED TO RAPE A GIRL !!!
Rape definition – Forced sexual harassments including both psychological coercion as well as physical force. Attempted rape includes verbal threats of rape. ( it means if a guy attempted to touché a girl without her permission by using force for sexual pleasure can be considered as rape , so this guy admitted that he wanted to kiss her even after her pushing away )
So as a concern friend I asked her whether she did any complaints to the authorities. Her respond was everything already happened and there is no use to bring back the old issue. She also claimed, if she bring this problem to the authorities it will bring her more harm then good.(By the way the girl is still under 18 when she was assaulted !!!)
I thought her reasoning was really stupid because she is not standing for her own rights. If a guy mistreat a girl such a way that it bring harms to the girl then the guy should be punished! No matter who the guy is .. Even if it is her father !!! DAN wanted to kissed her using force and I consider that as sexual harassment and he should be punished ,so that he wouldn’t do this to other girls in future !!!!
I suggested her to bring this issue to her parents and ask for their opinion but she is to embarrassed to do that! I volunteered to tell her parents and got scolded not to invade her privacy …
Sally went and call Dan immediately after the conversation! DAN found a very bright chance to become super hero , but for some reason he called Carl and threaten him and not me …
Oh yeah he did send me short messages regarding this issue …
Message #1
Im only going to say this once, don’t bother sally anymore . ( I bother her only , he wanted to rape her ! and who is he to tell me not to bother her ? )
Message #2
Oh, im sorry ? u r in the detective room ? go ahead, tell them things without any proof, sure they’re gonna listen to u. U dunno know anything that’s going on, so just shut up n mind ur own business. She is nice to me , n u know what? I didn’t do a damn thing to her. Unless u can prove otherwise then shut up. ( according to the guy I spoked with , his statement ( the message ) can be used as a prove to start the investigation. Furthermore , she was still a minor so this case will be done with her parents supervision !!! he also asked whether I did anything to any girls … : ) ( still think I don’t have proof ? )
Message #3
I am the super hero? Yes , you really don’t understand anything that’s going on between me n her. Ever heard innocent until proven guilty? Go ahead try to bring me down, go tell the police ‘ Oh u think someone I know tried to rape his friend,but I have no proof’ U r the one needs to go out more , instead of spending ur whole life in spr staring at ur computer. Hell did u even know that yesterday I just went out with sally and her friends, the few ppl that she trust the most . Have u even think for one second why she didn’t deny it cuz she doesn’t need to prove anything to u, ur just some person that she doesn’t give a damn about . ( he wrote some crap I dun really understand : ) ) (so here he tried to be the hero to safe the situation . Somehow I looked like the bad guy , and he keep on telling me I have no proof ) – I know something happened and why I shouldn’t make the authorities to start an investigation on this matter ? for some ppl this may look as a small issue since u r brought up that way … to avoid unnecessary problems but if u see this situation in my point of view … this guy is a very bad guy and he should be punished !!!!
-Oh yeah , Dan got fired from spb the same day … REASON , humiliated Student Publication Board and very mean to the publisher . His actions that made most of the spb members to avoid from coming to the working room and for other reasons that I am not aware off ..
End of Post
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That’s the story his side. Well, i have more to tell.
There’s one day where Dan went out with a “Jessica” to watch Death Note. Dan mention this is in blog. Dan mentioned about how fun it was going out with her. As usual, he told his sad dramatic story to her and so on. According to his blog post, he said that he hugged her, and while riding KTM, he slept thus “accidentally” lean his head on her shoulder. Bla bla bla. Yada Yada Yada. He became “close friends” with Jessica.
Interesting.
I messaged Jessica and pretended that i was a psychic that knows what happened. She was kinda shocked and wanted to know badly did i get that information. Gave Jessica the link then she went berserk. She told me that some “nice” and “romantic” part of the blog post is fabricated. So, i made a deal with Jessica to “play around” with Dan.
Jessica pretend that she don’t know anything. Days later, SPB call up for a meeting and both of them were there. Of course, SPBians knows about the blog post and start making bad gossips about Jessica and Dan having an affair for fun. Heh. Dan told her that “I dunno how they all know about it”. Jessica… just smiled…
Being in MMU for almost 3 years, i can read Dan’s movement like a book ( seriously, not only me. You all can predict his “acts” easily ). Well, it’s ABSOLUTELY OBVIOUS that Dan is into Jessica. Of course, with cheesy twisted dramas.
He keep on whining about how lame his life is ( in a very dramatic way of course ) to her. He keep on telling how much he loves Sally. In a way, he wanted Jessica to feel pity for him. Bleh.
Later, to the extreme level, he tried to make Jessica jealous because he thinks that Jessica likes him ( try not to puke on your keyboard please… ). So, he gave “Emily” rose. Heh. The rest, lazy to tell.
Just to show how “dramatic” this guy is, take a look at the picture below:
It was raining and he’s sitting there like an idiot. No, his mom didn’t die. It’s just that… he’s sad that Sally dun wan him. And OBVIOUSLY telling the public that he’s sad ( and dramatic ) while pretending that nothing actually happen. He later came into SPR while soaking wet and told us that he was “main hujan”.
Heh. Watever man, watever.
There’s more that i wanted to talk about but, i dun feel like pointlessly wasting my time talking about him. Heh
